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Social media reward habits and responsibility

How social media becomes a repeated reward habit, what it takes from daily life, and ways to take responsibility without self-blame.

Nisha Bal · Founder & Principal OT
Updated 11 October 2026

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A person opens the phone before getting out of bed. A message needs checking, a reel follows, then another piece of content catches their interest. Half an hour passes and the morning begins late. During the day, each unappealing task offers another occasion to check. By evening the person has been occupied almost continuously, while several things they wanted to do are still waiting. I see this as a serious clinical pattern: attention and time are being repeatedly drawn away from the life the person is trying to build.

Social media becomes destructive when it consumes sleep, fragments activity and occupies the spaces in which somebody might otherwise move, think, connect or begin. Reels, TikTok and the endless next thing offer novelty with very little preparation. Netflix can keep an evening extending beyond its intended ending. For an adult with ADHD who already finds disengaging or returning difficult, the pattern deserves direct attention. We need to understand what the use is doing and begin taking control of the conditions that sustain it.

I use “cheap dopamine” in inverted commas to describe reward that is easy to obtain, continually available and ready to enter almost every pause. The concern is what happens when it becomes the default response to experience. Making something, learning a skill or developing a relationship can require remaining with uncertainty, effort or little immediate feedback. The feed offers another feeling almost at once. In my clinical account, repeatedly taking that option gives slower activities very little opportunity to develop into something engaging.

Reward research helps explain part of the pull. Social rewards have been shown to shape when people post again. Digital-switching experiments have found that attempting to relieve boredom by moving between or within videos can leave people more bored and less engaged. Wanting to check can also outlast enjoyment. These findings give us reasons to examine what behaviour is being rehearsed: returning, switching, seeking another response, or leaving whenever an activity offers little immediate encouragement.

The interruption itself may matter. In a laboratory study of 60 young adults, the TikTok group was less successful at remembering intended actions after a ten-minute break than the groups using Twitter, YouTube or no screen. In my clinical work, this points to a familiar difficulty: returning without the next action clearly in mind. A departure can cost more than the minutes away. I want to support the return itself, including a visible reminder of where the activity was left.

There is a useful comparison with addiction here. A person can recognise a pattern's costs and still be drawn toward immediate reward or relief. Cues, availability, habit and the wish to change one's state all deserve examination. My clinical conclusion is that we can understand how the pattern developed while insisting on responsibility for what happens next. The habit may be damaging, and we have to respond. Calling the person weak or fundamentally bad adds psychological baggage without organising a different evening.

Taking control starts with an accurate account. What use was intended? What happened instead? What was being avoided or sought? The psychological ego can turn these questions into a judgement of identity: I have failed again, so this is who I am. We can recognise that story without letting it occupy the whole enquiry. A person has actions to take, while a habit also has conditions. Responsibility becomes more effective when it leads to a boundary, an alternative, a request for support and a plan for returning after interruption.

Nāgārjuna's middle-way perspective informs how I hold these together. He examines an actor and an action through their relation to one another. My clinical application is to look at the person, the habit and the conditions that help it continue: what the feed offers, what the person is seeking or avoiding, and what support is available. This gives us places to intervene. The consequences remain real; so does the person's capacity to participate in change. We can be firm about a behaviour without making it a permanent statement about the self. This is especially useful for somebody already carrying years of criticism.

When I speak about a dopamine reset, I mean deliberately interrupting a reward pattern and making room for other activities. A general-adult trial blocking mobile internet found improvements in attention and wellbeing. Another trial reducing smartphone time improved several short-term wellbeing and sleep measures, but use rose again afterwards. That return matters clinically. A period of restriction gives us an opportunity to rearrange daily life; maintaining the change requires arrangements that continue after the initial resolve has passed.

We choose a loop and protect something specific. The phone might charge outside the bedroom, the feed might be unavailable during a chosen task, or autoplay might be replaced by an agreed ending. We also arrange what happens next. A meal, a walk, a practical project, music, company or going to bed needs to become easier to enter. If the person is depleted, the replacement may begin with recovery and nourishment. Novelty and creativity can then have somewhere to develop through participation.

An OT can help identify the difficult transition and practise it with the person. We may leave the next task step visible, prepare the materials, arrange company or examine the feeling that appears when the screen stops. A short bout with awareness, relaxation and curiosity can be used to approach that feeling while beginning the chosen activity. This joins the reward environment to the psychology of effort. It also makes the replacement concrete enough to test in an ordinary day.

If the pattern returns, we examine where the arrangement failed: an exhausting day, an unavailable alternative, an exception that became the routine, or support that was missing. The next action still requires ownership. We adjust the conditions and continue. The aim is a life with more sleep, movement, contact and meaningful activity, where the drive for novelty has a place in creating and exploring. Screen time is useful information; what happens to participation is the larger clinical question.

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Research notes and references

Existing reward-learning findings concern posting, while boredom studies examine switching; wanting/liking and ADHD-use associations are not universal causal mechanisms. Reference 25 studied 60 young adults without psychiatric histories; feed groups were allocated partly according to habitual platform use, so formats and users were not cleanly separated. TikTok-related prospective-memory impairment was observed after one laboratory interruption, without an ADHD sample, longitudinal deterioration or dopamine measurement. Reference 24 randomised 111 healthy students to a three-week smartphone cap or usual use: short-term sleep and wellbeing outcomes improved, but screen time rebounded and between-group benefits were not generally sustained. It measured total phone time, with self-reported outcomes and no blinding. Existing PET/MRI results neither demonstrate pathway destruction nor establish biochemical restoration. The addiction analogy concerns reinforcement and continuing despite costs; chemical equivalence is not inferred. Reset, cheap dopamine and working for dopamine retain the clinician's behavioural meaning. The middle-way interpretation, replacement arrangements, return cues and brief approach application are clinical reasoning. The philosophical passage applies MMK 8.12 and 24.18–19 (reference 19/reference 20) to screen habits. The suggested points of intervention are the clinician's functional enquiry. Actor/action dependence is not a claim that the person disappears or that an impersonal system alone performs the behaviour. No Buddhist verse supplies evidence of dopamine-pathway damage or restoration.

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Berke, J. D. (2018). What does dopamine mean? Nature Neuroscience, 21, 787–793. doi:10.1038/s41593-018-0152-y.
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Neuroscientific perspective on dopamine's complex roles in learning, motivation and movement. Not an ADHD intervention trial or evidence of a screen-related dopamine reset.
Ding, J., Liu, Z., & Chao, M. (2025). The association between problematic social media use and attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder symptomatology: a systematic review and meta-analysis. Journal of Psychiatric Research, 189, 544–553. doi:10.1016/j.jpsychires.2025.07.009.
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ADHD symptoms correlate with problematic social-media use. Symptom scales do not necessarily indicate confirmed diagnoses, and correlations cannot establish causal direction.
Nguyen, L., Walters, J., Paul, S., Monreal Ijurco, S., Rainey, G. E., Parekh, N., Blair, G., & Darrah, M. (2025). Feeds, feelings, and focus: A systematic review and meta-analysis examining the cognitive and mental health correlates of short-form video use. Psychological Bulletin, 151(9), 1125–1146. doi:10.1037/bul0000498.
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Greater short-form video use is associated with poorer attention and inhibitory control across mixed-age samples. This does not prove screen-induced ADHD or measured dopamine changes.
Castelo, N., Kushlev, K., Ward, A. F., Esterman, M., & Reiner, P. B. (2025). Blocking mobile internet on smartphones improves sustained attention, mental health, and subjective well-being. PNAS Nexus, 4(2), pgaf017. doi:10.1093/pnasnexus/pgaf017.
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General-adult experiment found benefits after restricting mobile internet. Short duration and adherence limitations matter. It did not test ADHD treatment or measure a dopamine reset.
Tam, K. Y. Y., & Inzlicht, M. (2024). Fast-forward to boredom: How switching behavior on digital media makes people more bored. Journal of Experimental Psychology: General, 153(10), 2409–2426. https://doi.org/10.1037/xge0001639
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Total N=1,223; university students and online general-population samples, not selected for ADHD. Some student participants were 17; later online samples were adults. Experiments supported a loop in which boredom prompted switching, while allowing rapid video switching increased boredom and reduced reported engagement or satisfaction in several experiments. More available stimulation did not consistently mean a more satisfying experience. Effects were clearest in student video experiments. Broader samples showed order effects and no overall within-person boredom difference. Brief laboratory exposures, not long-term ADHD trials; no dopamine, addiction or biological-reset measurement.
Lembke, A. (2021). Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence. Dutton.
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Optional discussion of reward and compulsive consumption. Publisher overview and bibliographic details verified; its metaphors are not treated as proof of an ADHD dopamine reset.
Lindström, B., Bellander, M., Schultner, D. T., Chang, A., Tobler, P. N., & Amodio, D. M. (2021). A computational reward learning account of social media engagement. Nature Communications, 12, 1311. https://doi.org/10.1038/s41467-020-19607-x
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Analysis of 1,046,857 posts from 4,168 users, plus a 176-person simulated-platform experiment. Counterbalanced low/high like rewards changed posting timing: latencies were approximately 10.9% longer with lower rewards. Supports reward-shaped engagement. Trace users' ages were unverified; the experiment studied posting, not all scrolling. No dopamine, injury, clinical addiction or ADHD measures. Primary abstract and indexed original methods/results checked; complete PDF unavailable.
Westbrook, A., Ghosh, A., van den Bosch, R., Määttä, J. I., Hofmans, L., & Cools, R. (2021). Striatal dopamine synthesis capacity reflects smartphone social activity. iScience, 24(5), 102497. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.isci.2021.102497
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Correlational PET/tap-logging study of 22 healthy adults aged 18–33. Higher proportion of social-app taps, including messaging, associated with lower posterior-putamen dopamine synthesis capacity; absolute social-tap count was not reliably associated. PET was measured once and often months apart from monitoring. Small selected sample; no causal exposure test, synaptic-release measure, neuronal injury or ADHD analysis. Original indexed methods/results checked.
Shannon, H., Montgomery, M., Cassidy, C., Lemieux, M., Yee, J. A., Brunier, L.-S., Hellemans, K. G. C., & Guimond, S. (2026). Testing dopaminergic markers of problematic social media use using neuromelanin-sensitive MRI. Psychiatry Research: Neuroimaging, 357, 112144. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.pscychresns.2026.112144
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Cross-sectional neuromelanin-MRI study in 72 adults aged 18–35, half with a first-degree relative with psychosis. Problematic-use scores did not significantly relate to average SN-VTA signal (p=.65); voxelwise findings failed correction. This indirect dopamine-related marker measures neither scrolling-related release nor pathway destruction. Selected sample and marker specificity constrain inference; no ADHD analysis. Primary abstract and indexed methods/results checked.
Ihssen, N., & Wadsley, M. (2021). A reward and incentive-sensitization perspective on compulsive use of social networking sites—Wanting but not liking predicts checking frequency and problematic use behavior. Addictive Behaviors, 116, 106808. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.addbeh.2020.106808
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Three online studies pooled 358 adults aged 18–35, mostly students. Self-reported wanting and logo-triggered urges associated with excessive/problematic use; liking was less predictive. Supports distinguishing the pull to continue from enjoyment. Drug-related incentive processes inform interpretation, without demonstrating identical pharmacology, neural sensitisation or causal progression. Selected sample, adapted scales and self-report constrain inference. No ADHD analysis. Primary indexed methods/results checked.
Grassi, G., Moradei, C., Cavaliere, S., & Cecchelli, C. (2026). Distracted and connected: Characterizing the clinical phenotype and exploring potential biotype markers of adults with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) and problematic usage of the internet (PUI). Journal of Psychiatric Research, 193, 316–329. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jpsychires.2025.11.025
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Clinical comparison: 52 adult ADHD patients above a compulsive-internet-use cut-off and 52 matched ADHD patients below it, selected from 169. Greater problematic use accompanied emotional, sleep and functional difficulties; social media was the most common subtype. Cognitive tasks and P300 did not significantly differ. Broad internet-use screening, selected sample and cross-sectional comparison establish neither causation nor dopamine damage. Primary abstract checked; full text restricted.
Wadsley, M., & Ihssen, N. (2023). Restricting social networking site use for one week produces varied effects on mood but does not increase explicit or implicit desires to use SNSs: Findings from an ecological momentary assessment study. PLOS ONE, 18(11), e0293467. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0293467
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Preregistered 15-day study of 51 student iPhone users aged 18–25, including requested one-week social-network abstinence; mood analyses included 35. Use fell 83.4%, but only seven fully abstained. No general craving/withdrawal increase; mood effects were mixed. No concurrent randomised control, incomplete abstinence and selected volunteers limit inference. Neither severe clinical addiction nor long-term benefits are settled. No dopamine/reset measurement. Full original checked.
Lambert, J., Barnstable, G., Minter, E., Cooper, J., & McEwan, D. (2022). Taking a One-Week Break from Social Media Improves Well-Being, Depression, and Anxiety: A Randomized Controlled Trial. Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking, 25(5), 287–293. doi:10.1089/cyber.2021.0324.
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RCT of 154 adult daily users willing to stop four social platforms for one week versus usual use; 140 completed follow-up. Adjusted wellbeing (+4.9), depressive symptoms (−2.2) and anxiety (−1.7) favoured the break. Reduced self-reported use was corroborated by device records in a subsample. Motivated volunteers, an unblinded comparison and short follow-up limit generalisation. No ADHD selection, addiction treatment or dopamine measurement. Full author copy verified.
Mertens, L., Brockmeier, L. C., Roitzheim, C., Radtke, T., Dingler, T., & Keller, J. (2026). Promoting Self-Regulated Social Media Use on Smartphones With a Mobile Intervention App (Wellspent): Randomized Controlled Trial. JMIR mHealth and uHealth, 14, e56824. doi:10.2196/56824.
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Three-week RCT randomised 70 adult iPhone users to personalised reminders or control. Participant-entered device records showed approximately 29 minutes less daily use of their selected app. Perceived problematic smartphone use improved; the prespecified social-media scale and self-efficacy did not. Small sample (primary model N=46), short follow-up and self-report limitations matter. Two authors had company ties. Same dataset as a 2025 wellbeing paper; not independent replication. Full text verified.
Todorovic, L., Baumer, J., & Larsen, H. (2026). ADHD symptoms and problematic digital media use in emerging adults: Investigating the role of cognitive deficits as mediators. Addictive Behaviors, 175, 108608. doi:10.1016/j.addbeh.2026.108608.
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Preregistered cross-sectional study of 111 emerging adults, mean age 21.2, 84% female. Higher self-reported ADHD symptoms were associated with problematic social-media use and gaming. Confirmatory mediation by inhibition, reward sensitivity and time-processing measures was unsupported; exploratory pathways were suggestive only. This community symptom sample was not a diagnosed ADHD cohort; questionnaire associations cannot establish direction or addiction mechanisms. Full institutional author copy verified.
Luoma, J. B., Kohlenberg, B. S., Hayes, S. C., & Fletcher, L. (2012). Slow and steady wins the race: A randomized clinical trial of acceptance and commitment therapy targeting shame in substance use disorders. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 80(1), 43–53. doi:10.1037/a0026070.
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Cohort-pair randomised trial of 133 adults in residential substance treatment. Six hours of ACT replaced usual programming. ACT produced less immediate shame relief but greater reduction at four months, more treatment attendance and lower reported substance use. Acceptance and values-based action accompanied change; isolated self-compassion was not tested. Substantial missing follow-up, one centre and therapist/attention effects limit interpretation. Neither an ADHD nor social-media trial. Full author copy verified.
Masuch, T. V., Bea, M., Alm, B., Deibler, P., & Sobanski, E. (2019). Internalized stigma, anticipated discrimination and perceived public stigma in adults with ADHD. ADHD Attention Deficit and Hyperactivity Disorders, 11(2), 211–220. doi:10.1007/s12402-018-0274-9.
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Cross-sectional questionnaires in 104 adults with ADHD. Internalised stigma and/or anticipated discrimination associated with distress, self-esteem, impairment, symptoms and quality of life. Twenty-four reported high internalised stigma; 92 anticipated discrimination. This selected sample does not establish population prevalence or causal direction. Clinical interpretation concerns investigating social judgement and self-view. Original abstract and citation checked; full text restricted.
Breines, J. G., & Chen, S. (2012). Self-compassion increases self-improvement motivation. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 38(9), 1133–1143. doi:10.1177/0146167212445599.
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Four randomised experiments, mainly undergraduates plus a community adult sample. Compassionate reflection increased improvement and repair motivation. After test failure, study time exceeded no intervention; the self-esteem comparison was marginal and later test scores did not significantly differ. Immediate experimental findings support effort alongside kindness, not durable accountability or ADHD treatment. Full primary paper checked through an author copy.
Nāgārjuna. (1995). The Fundamental Wisdom of the Middle Way: Nāgārjuna’s Mūlamadhyamakakārikā (J. L. Garfield, Trans. & commentary). Oxford University Press.
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24.18 links dependent arising, emptiness, dependent designation and the middle way. 8.12 treats actor/action as mutually dependent. 24.38–39 contrasts inherent nature with change and ending suffering. Garfield translates the Tibetan and explicitly works within an Indo-Tibetan interpretive framework. Clinical agency is the author's application; the text is not ADHD evidence. PDF is an online reproduction, not the publisher's site.
Nāgārjuna. (2000). Verses from the Centre: Mūlamadhyamakakārikā (S. Batchelor, Romanization & literal English translation of the Tibetan text). Sharpham College. April 2000.
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The preface identifies consulted Tibetan editions and Tsongkhapa's commentary. The document is the literal working translation, distinct from Batchelor's published free poetic version. Terminology varies from Garfield; the same root verses support dependence, contextual designation and the possibility of change. Two translations are two textual witnesses, not independent empirical studies. Wisdomlib's chapter 24 combines root verses with translated Tsongkhapa commentary, which must not be attributed wholesale to Nāgārjuna.
Adamou, M., et al. (2021). Recommendations for occupational therapy interventions for adults with ADHD: a consensus statement from the UK adult ADHD network. BMC Psychiatry, 21, 72. doi 10.1186/s12888-021-03070-z.
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Expert consensus about OT assessment and intervention. A practice framework, not a trial showing that all proposed strategies improve ADHD symptoms.
Kastner L, Velder-Shukrun Y, Bonne O, Traub Bar-Ilan R, Maeir A. Pilot Study of the Cognitive–Functional Intervention for Adults (Cog-Fun A): A Metacognitive–Functional Tool for Adults With Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. American Journal of Occupational Therapy. 2022;76(2):7602205070. doi:10.5014/ajot.2022.046417.
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14 adults aged 18–60 with ADHD and executive-function impairment; 12 completed. The programme linked guided discovery and strategy use to personally meaningful activity goals. Participants reported improved daily performance and quality of life after treatment. No control group and very small sample; some quality-of-life gains declined at follow-up. Promising direct adult OT evidence, not an established estimate of efficacy.
Kraus, J., Mlynski, C., Hartmann, F., Clay, G., Goschke, T., Silani, G., & Job, V. (2025). The pleasure of effort: Cognitive challenges trigger hedonic physiological responses. Annals of the New York Academy of Sciences, 1546, 100–111. https://doi.org/10.1111/nyas.15323
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Preregistered random-assignment experiment, final N=194, not an ADHD sample. Effort-contingent versus noncontingent monetary reward during working-memory training increased zygomaticus facial-muscle response after a subsequent unrewarded maths challenge, particularly difficult trials. An exploratory analysis linked that response with liking in the contingent-reward group. Group means for self-reported liking and wanting did not differ, and anticipation/engagement effects were absent. Supports a learned pleasure-related response after effort; no dopamine measurement, reset, ADHD treatment or biological need for suffering.
Pieh, C., Humer, E., Hoenigl, A., Schwab, J., Mayerhofer, D., Dale, R., & Haider, K. (2025). Smartphone screen time reduction improves mental health: a randomized controlled trial. BMC Medicine, 23, 107. https://doi.org/10.1186/s12916-025-03944-z
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111 healthy students randomised to three weeks of smartphone use ≤2 hours/day or usual use. Short-term depression, stress, insomnia and wellbeing measures improved, with small-to-medium effects. Screen time rapidly rebounded; general between-group benefits were not sustained at six-week follow-up. No ADHD sample; unblinded, self-reported outcomes and screenshot-based total time, without content data. Primary methods, results and limitations checked.
Chiossi, F., Haliburton, L., Ou, C., Butz, A., & Schmidt, A. (2023). Short-form videos degrade our capacity to retain intentions: Effect of context switching on prospective memory. Proceedings of the 2023 CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems, 1–14. https://doi.org/10.1145/3544548.3580778
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60 adults aged 19–34 without psychiatric/neurological histories completed prospective-memory tasks around a ten-minute TikTok, Twitter, YouTube or rest interruption. TikTok-related accuracy declined; response-time differences were nonsignificant. Platform assignment partly reflected habitual use, so users and feed formats were not cleanly randomised across all four groups. A single laboratory session, not ADHD or dopamine-pathway injury. Primary methods, results and limitations checked.
Arch, J. J., & Craske, M. G. (2006). Mechanisms of mindfulness: Emotion regulation following a focused breathing induction. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 44(12), 1849–1858. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.brat.2005.12.007
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60 mostly university adults randomised to 15-minute focused breathing, mind wandering or worry. Optional aversive-picture contact increased versus mind wandering, but not significantly versus worry. Not every affect measure differed. No ADHD, occupational task or durability assessment. Supports an awareness/willingness component, not the clinician’s whole practice. Full primary paper read in the previous research extension.
Kircanski, K., Lieberman, M. D., & Craske, M. G. (2012). Feelings into words: Contributions of language to exposure therapy. Psychological Science, 23(10), 1086–1091. https://doi.org/10.1177/0956797612443830
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88 spider-fearful adults randomised to affect labelling, reappraisal, distraction or exposure alone; twenty 38-second trials across two days. Labelling improved one-week skin-conductance responding relative to other conditions; its approach advantage over distraction was marginal (p=.054), with no reported-fear advantage. Not ADHD or task-effort treatment; assessors unblinded. Full primary manuscript read in the previous extension.

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